Why You’re Still Single: The Brutal Truth and How to Fix It

Let’s cut the bullshit—if you’re still single and you don’t want to be, it’s your fault.

It’s not bad luck. It’s not the apps. It’s not that “women only want rich guys.” The hard truth? You’re not the man you need to be to attract the kind of woman you want.

🔷 I don’t deal in excuses. I deal in results.

If you want to know how to get a girlfriend, it starts with fixing the things that are keeping you stuck. Let’s get into it.

1. You’re Playing the Game Like a Loser

🔷 Women don’t owe you attention. You either bring value, or you get ignored.

Most men are running around cold approaching like idiots, spamming “hey” on dating apps, or hoping they’ll “meet the right girl someday.” That’s loser shit.

Here’s how I teach men to flip the script:

✅ Stop chasing, start attracting. High-status men don’t “find” women—women find them.
✅ Your lifestyle should pull women in. If your Instagram looks like every other average dude’s, you’re playing on hard mode.
✅ Be seen in high-status environments. If you’re not at exclusive events, you’re invisible to the women you actually want.

🔷 If you’re still out there “trying” to meet women instead of making yourself the kind of man women want to meet, you’re already losing.

2. You Bring Nothing to the Table

🔷 Most men approach dating like beggars—hoping to “get” something from women instead of offering value.

Why would a high-status woman want to date you? What are you bringing to her life? If you can’t answer that, you don’t deserve her.

How to Actually Become a Man Women Want:

✅ Be the source of value. Women chase men who create excitement, social opportunities, and memorable experiences.
✅ Control the social dynamics. The guy who throws the party never struggles with women.
✅ Make people better. Women and high-status men are drawn to people who elevate them, not just take up space.

🔷 If you’re waiting for a woman to “pick” you, you’ve already lost. Be so undeniable that you don’t need to chase.

3. You’re Afraid of the Fucking Grind

🔷 Success in dating—like everything else—requires work.

Most guys waste time swiping, binge-watching Netflix, or drowning in their own excuses. Meanwhile, the guy who’s hitting the gym, stacking his money, and expanding his network is the one attracting the women you wish you had.

Here’s how I teach men to separate from the average:

✅ Fix your body. Your fitness is a direct reflection of your discipline. If you look soft, you are soft.
✅ Fix your money. Women don’t give a shit about your potential. They want a man who has his life together.
✅ Fix your time management. If you have time for video games but not for building a high-status lifestyle, you deserve to be single.

🔷 You don’t get rejected because women are shallow. You get rejected because you’re average. Fix it.

4. You’re Sitting on Your Ass Waiting for Women to Find You

🔷 Women aren’t going to magically knock on your door and ask to date you.

Every high-status man I’ve ever trained creates opportunities instead of waiting for them. If you’re not actively positioning yourself where high-value women are, you’re invisible.

Here’s how I make sure my men are where the action is:

✅ Use Instagram like a weapon. Your Instagram isn’t for “memories”—it’s your digital resume. If it doesn’t scream high-status, fix it now.
✅ Be in the right rooms. Nightclubs, networking events, charity galas, VIP parties—these are where high-value men and women meet.
✅ Be intentional. If you’re still “just going with the flow,” you’re already losing.

🔷 Women aren’t rejecting you—they just don’t know you exist. Get in front of them the right way.

5. You Don’t Have a Mentor—And That’s Why You’re Stuck

🔷 If you could figure this out on your own, you wouldn’t be here.

The best men in the world all have coaches—business, fitness, social dynamics. Meanwhile, average guys keep trying the same failing strategies over and over, hoping something will change.

Here’s why every high-status man has mentors:

✅ You can’t solve your own blind spots. A mentor sees what you can’t and calls out your bullshit.
✅ You learn faster by copying success. The fastest way to win is to model men who are already winning.
✅ Accountability separates talkers from doers. Most men fail because they aren’t pushed. MOA pushes you.

🔷 You can keep spinning your wheels, or you can work with people who already have the results you want. Your choice.

The Fix Starts Now

🔷 If you’re serious about learning how to get a girlfriend—or attracting women effortlessly—you need to make a decision right now.

✅ Step 1: Accept that status is the ultimate equalizer. You don’t need to be rich or famous—you just need to be better than the average guy.
✅ Step 2: Stop chasing. Build a life that naturally pulls high-value women in.
✅ Step 3: Get a mentor and execute. You need a proven strategy, not trial and error.

🔷 At MOA, we don’t just give you advice—we give you a blueprint.

🚀 You’ll learn how to:
🔥 Elevate your status so women compete for your attention.
🔥 Build a powerful network that makes dating effortless.
🔥 Turn your lifestyle into an attraction magnet.

🔷 If you want to stop being single and actually figure out how to get a girlfriend, start executing today.

Join MOA now and transform your life in 60 days or less.