For Men Terrified of Being Average: The Definitive Guide on How to Build a Social Circle of Incredible Women and Elite Men in 60 Days or Less

By Michael Sartain
Michael Sartain

If you want a scalable and automatic system of meeting high-status men and amazing women, then this will be the most exciting message you will ever read.

On the same token, if you’re in pickup, but want to be in the top 1% of men with a lifestyle like Dan Bilzerian, then this message can save you hundreds of hours and a great deal of embarrassment.

Listen, pickup was created because frustrated men saw that elites had incredible friends and dated classy women which they wanted for themselves. But what started as reasonable beginnings, quickly morphed into a secretive community of toxicity and far-out fashion which attracted some… let’s say interesting people. It also taught damaging advice that as a net result has hurt men.

Let me explain.

Men joined pickup to be world-class, but world-class men don’t even know what pickup is. Just imagine Drake walking around the mall looking for girls to talk to after he sold 170 million records.

Instead of pursuing people to come into their lives, high-status men focus on attracting people into their lives.

Look at it like this, there’s a wrong method that is secretive and frowned upon and there’s a right method that has everyone scrambling to meet you.

Wrong method, “I don’t have what I want in life; teach me the shortcut so I can manipulate people into liking me,” (focusing on what to do and what to have).

Correct method, “I don’t have what I want in life, so I’m going to work on becoming more attractive so the world will like me,” (focusing on who to be).

Today’s admired, high value men focused on becoming elites, so they could be around elite women and men. There wasn’t any manipulation or “magic set of steps and words.” They made themselves valuable to society so intelligent, successful, attractive women and high value men want to be around them because of who they are.

So it really boils down to this: if you want to have an abundance of outstanding women and network with elite men, then you need to focus on being high-status.

This doesn’t mean you need to be rich or famous. You can do all of this without knowing anyone or having a spare dollar to your name.

The point is, to have the best, you have to be the best. It’s that simple.

That’s exactly what this message is all about - unlocking the scientific approach to becoming an elite man and building a high-status network of stunning women and world-class men in less than 60 days.

However, this message is not about dating as many women as possible, this is about building meaningful relationships. This is about creating a network of positive, productive relationships with successful women, successful men and becoming a high-status person. Once you understand how to be high-status, dating comes naturally.

A network (or a social circle), is just a collection of your friends. The benefit is that you can leverage other’s resources to meet new people and add more resources into your social circle. This creates a system that builds upon itself like a snowball.

The results from this system have been insane and entirely without pickup or inauthentic methods of meeting people.

Most importantly, it’s easy to do by anyone, no matter where you’re starting from.

Meet Anthony. At 5’ 3”, balding, and a self-proclaimed introvert, he was the shy guy growing up. He moved to Los Angeles hoping to meet high-value men and women, but ended up completely alone and depressed. He had taken several social dynamics programs in the past, but none gave him the full picture or the results he really wanted. He kept trying, but he knew there must be something more than going to the bar every weekend.

Through this system, Anthony’s life has radically changed. Instead of going to the dive bar, he is invited to exclusive events all over LA, including Dan Fleyshman’s Pizza Festival.

But it doesn’t end there, Anthony has hosted dozens of his own events which garnered him local celebrity status in Los Angeles.

I’m kind of becoming the hub of a lot of shit going on in LA. It’s pretty cool.

Anthony has grown his Instagram from 0 to 4,000 real followers in under a year, hangs out with “blue check marks,” and is in contact with thousands of models that constantly ask him what he’s doing next.

Some days I just have to slap myself and be like this is real”, he says. “Seriously, this has been the best thing that’s happened in my life

This is a global system, for anyone, anywhere. Paul is a college student from a small town in France who was trying everything he could to connect with the top people in his city. He tried going out to clubs every weekend to meet people but nothing worked.

He assumed that in order to meet the top people in his city, he had to be rich or famous. He had success with meeting pretty girls but thought it was impossible for him to meet the women that really excited him because he didn’t feel ‘good enough’.

But, that all changed when he started to use my social circle strategy. Paul now has a much easier time meeting people because of his social media and has been able to network with millionaires.

According to him, Paul’s dating life has dramatically changed as well. In one instance, he went on a date with the most beautiful woman he’s ever met and she asked him if he was a millionaire because of what he had access to and the network that he created.

What’s exciting about this is that Paul is a broke college student, but was still able to leverage the concepts taught here to make an exciting life for himself.

Paul now feels like he can give value to anyone. He receives invites to events with high-level men and women, has full access to the DJ booth at the top clubs, and throws world class events all over Europe.

That’s pretty impressive for a full time student.

Who is this for?

This is for YOU if:

  • You want to have an abundance of high-quality women with similar interests and meet them in an authentic, sustainable and systematic way that doesn’t consume your life.
  • Care about meeting high status and like-minded successful men then you’re in the right place.
  • Want a system of creating positive relationships with the most sought after women and men in society, then you’re in the right place.
  • Want to feel confident and social, and receive invitations to exclusive events catering to the best of the best, then you’re in the right place.
  • Are not living up to your potential and you’re disappointed with average results and average people, then stick around.
  • Want to find that one amazing girl that makes your heart skip, then stick around.
  • Afraid of dating beautiful and successful women for fear they’ll cheat on you, then stick around.
  • Suspicious of dating products, PUA weirdos, and anything else that might not be authentic to you, then this is for you.
  • Feel like you’ll miss out on life if this area isn’t fixed, and with each passing day you become more devastated with your situation, then this is for you.
  • Envious of people with far less intelligence having an abundant lifestyle, and hate society for telling you the wrong approach to meeting women, then this is for you.

Here’s the truth, you can have an abundance of amazing women and elite connections by building a powerful social circle and becoming high-status.

However, most men have no idea how to do this because they’re given bad advice from different self-help gurus and society.

I am the only person dedicated to solving this particular problem for men that want to be winners.

What this is not about

  • Pickup
  • Manipulation, persuasion or using people
  • A secret community you have to hide from everyone
  • One night stands
  • Another dating method

Who Am I?

My name is Michael Sartain and I’ve been building and teaching a systematic approach to networking for the past 20 years.

I don’t say this to brag, but I’ve used this exact system to increase my status which lead me to:

  • Build close relationships with top influencers and celebrities with aggregate followings of 200+ million
  • Date amazing, jaw dropping women who are way out of my league
  • Become friends with a huge array of celebrities, athletes, musical artists, performers, entrepreneurs, and models
  • Become the premier red carpet host for celebrity events and raise millions of dollars for charity
  • Attend some of the top parties in the world such as the Maxim, Ignite, Wish and Playboy parties
  • Host over 50 bikini competitions, including at Wet Republic, which has the largest bikini competitions in the world
  • Use this method to network up the professional ladder to become a millionaire by 29

The Big Secret Society Really Doesn’t Want You To Know

The crucial element to building an abundant social circle of amazing women is to understand that humans have socially evolved over tens of thousands of generations. Sex is one of the main drivers of human pursuit and there are certain “cues” that are given by the males in society that have the most sex. I can confidently tell you that one of those cues is not daygaming at the mall.

No matter how good you are at pickup, you’re going to be perceived as low status. Women have associated pickup with men of lower value. This is because high-value men do not randomly walk up to ladies in bars, clubs, or the street.

There’s a subset of the male population that attracts the most women. These men have one important characteristic that women respond to. It isn’t physical attraction or wealth. The trait that women respond to most is social status.

Dr. David Buss, of my alma mater of UT Austin, is the world’s leading evolutionary psychologist. Buss specializes in human mating strategies and conflict between the sexes, among other areas of evolutionary psychology. Buss has written nine books on evolutionary psychology; after 43 years of research, here is what Dr. Buss has to say about status, “Humans live in a social world in which relative rank matters for nearly everything — your access to resources, your ability to attract mates, and even how long you live. From an evolutionary perspective, reproductively relevant resources flow to those high in status and trickle slowly, if at all, to those lower on the social totem pole.”

In one study conducted by Dr. Buss, published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, it was found that the highest status males were able to carry out their preferred mating strategy, whereas the lowest status males were inhibited by their low social ranking. These results indicate that regardless of the type of dating life you desire, you must attain higher status. Through status, you can choose your preferred mating strategy; you can have an abundance of options or one amazing option.

The secret is to focus on being high status. Remember, humans are social creatures and the most effective way to increase your status is by building an elite social circle.

After successfully building an abundant social network of celebrities and extremely desirable women, I’ve discovered three key areas to rapidly attaining a high level of social status. I call these the Three Pillars of High Status which are:

  1. Social media
  2. Female teammates
  3. Exclusive events

Below I outline how you can use these pillars to quit pickup and completely change the way you network with anyone.

The Three Pillars of High Status

Pillar One: Social Media

Using social media to meet women is more effective and scalable than pickup.

Pickup was great in the early 2000s, especially if you had extreme social anxiety or were a hard case newbie. However, the pickup community has failed to realize that social circumstances have changed significantly and that pickup is seen as weird and toxic by the rest of society.

Guys that do pickup quickly realize its limitations. Below is a visual on old strategies vs. new social media strategies.

Old Way

  • Doing cold approach to meet women
  • Brute force approach
  • Walking up to strangers in a bar/club
  • Daygame
  • Arithmetic 1+1+1

Old Result

  • Huge numbers game
  • Uncalibrated
  • Unsatisfied with the women you meet
  • Must go out consistently to "stay sharp"
  • Begins from a place of lack (scarcity)
  • Don't know how to meet high value people
  • Out of sync with what the cool kids are doing
  • Success is slow; start over every time you go out

New Way

  • Using social media to meet women
  • Optimized system
  • Show your status
  • Demonstrate a cool, fun and interesting lifestyle
  • Geometric 2^3

New Result

  • Massively scalable
  • More response from high value women
  • Much more efficient if you have a busy life
  • "Warm approach" because of your social media presence
  • Desirable people have a strong, active social media
  • Logistical access and networking access
  • Your status is portable, it goes where you go
  • Exponential success that compounds like a snowball

Pickup is great if you have absolutely no social skills and have never spoken with women. If you’re a hardcase newbie with extreme social anxiety then it’s perfect for you. You’ll get out of your shell, you’ll start meeting women, and you’ll develop some better social skills.

But the more you utilize pickup, the more you realize how completely inefficient it is. To start, it doesn’t work with the most desirable women. Smart, attractive women will see that you’re a phony right away if you start doing some pickup BS. I’m friends with a lot of very confident, desirable women that get approached by pickup guys all the time. Afterwards, they’ll tell me about “this super creepy thing that just happened to me”.

This is because you’re fighting an uphill battle from the start. You opened with scarcity. Remember, women respond to males with the highest status (aka abundance) and daygaming at the mall is not a high status activity. When you daygame, you are signaling major evolutionary indicators that you cannot access scarce resources.

Scarce resources are people, objects, locations, skills, or information that most people don’t have. Humans inherently want to have access to scarce resources. This is why diamonds are more valuable than water, even though water is required to sustain life.

People with access to scarce resources behave in different ways. This is demonstrated through behavior, language, and appearance. Since high value men already have an abundance of women (a scarce resource) they don’t need pickup. Just by “striking up a conversation,” you’re instantaneously seen as low value because high value people never do it.

Homeless people and salesmen randomly walk up to strangers. G-Eazy doesn’t.

This is what makes pickup such a massive numbers game. Desirable women want high value men, and you’re seen as low value when you randomly approach. You have to open and open and open to eventually (hopefully) find something that sticks. Because of this, you’ll be unsatisfied with the women you meet - they just aren’t the ones that you desire most.

pickup is uncalibrated and needy. Uncalled for touching and trying to sleep with every girl is not what successful guys with abundance do. They do the exact opposite. This is why pickup is seen as weird by society and why hundreds of pickup artists got deplatformed on YouTube.

The worst part is, it’s not even your fault! You were just following the advice of people you thought were getting results.

Talk to an extremely attractive woman with a boyfriend and ask her how they met. Very rarely will you hear “he walked up to me in a bar”. Most really attractive women meet their boyfriend through an introduction from a girl or through social media.

When you have a solid social media profile, you’re showing huge evolutionary signs that you are a high status male. Having a bad Instagram is incredibly uncalibrated in high level social circles.

The most influential people and desirable women in your city are on social media. With a proper profile you look very calibrated and you’ll have a much higher rate of women responding to your DMs. The best part is that this is massively scalable.

Based on the quality of your profile, you’re building comfort, trust, and rapport with everyone that encounters your social media. The marginal cost of building comfort with one more girl is zero. One hundred people could see your profile or one million; your input was exactly the same. This is what makes this so exciting.

Another drawback of pickup is that there’s no system for creating positive male friendships, but this is not true with social media. As you optimize your social media presence, both men and women will want to get to know the guy behind the intriguing profile.

A good analogy for pickup vs social media is door to door sales and website funnels. With door to door sales, you go knock doors all day, hope someone answers and if they do you try to pitch them without a door slamming in your face. That would be pickup.

However, website funnels drive specific groups to your site - people are coming to you rather than the other way around. That’s social media. It is highly scalable - a marriage of efficiency and effectiveness.

But social media is not to be used as another online dating platform. It’s a constituent of a larger whole called your social circle. To use social media properly, you need to create the “Social Media Funnel,” which is the driving force of your social circle.

The Social Media Funnel is a system for adding new people, expanding relationships with current friends, and a means to invite people to real world events.

Social media is used to demonstrate your status in an irrefutable way. It must be absolutely undeniable that you are a high status person with a cool and interesting lifestyle. The more people that see it, the better. When you meet someone, have them follow you on social media as quickly as possible because your profile will do the heavy lifting more than your words ever could.

As people begin to follow you, they become inundated with your life. Stories, posts, captions, etc. all showing that you have access to scarce resources. This entices people to spend time with you.

Specifically with women, you want to exchange social medias quickly, or DM them through social media if you haven’t met yet, so she can see what your life is like. She will watch your stories and see your posts that irrefutably show that you’re a high status guy (Irrefutable Visual Evidence or IVE). Eventually, when you want to invite her to an event (more on this later), it’s effortless. It’s like a warm approach.

This can be done on a massive scale. Tens of thousands of people watch my stories and like my posts. I then invite the people that have been interacting with my profile to an event, and I usually do this in between rounds of Madden. It couldn’t be easier.

Proof on why using social media is better

Do you want to meet the guy on the left, or the guy on the right?

Same person. Same year. Different framing.

These clips are from Instagrams of guys that have learned this. See how they are showing access to scarce resources in every frame? That’s EXACTLY what you should be doing.

Social Media Q&A
What if I don't have a social media profile?
That doesn't matter. Better to start from scratch than do nothing at all.
What do I post on my social media?
Make posts that show that you have access to scarce resources. This could be anything. Mansions. Boats. VIP. Attractive Women. Anything in society that is scarce.
Do I need an Instagram like yours to be successful?
No. Absolutely not. I don't tell anyone to build an Instagram like mine. You should build a social media profile that is specific to you and your goals. You could have the social media archetype of the artist, the business owner, the jet setter, the photographer, the promoter, or anything you want as long as you are following the principles of a high-value social media profile, which is about showing access to scarce resources. That doesn't mean your social media needs to be plastered with girls. There are many ways to show access to scarce resources.
Do I have to post women on my social media?
It helps to show preselection. You don't have to post girls in bikinis or lingerie. If you're in an industry where you'd get in trouble, or you don't want to showcase that, it's absolutely ok. You can still leverage social media to meet people even if you don't post women. Just show access to other scarce resources.
What kind of social media do I have to make?
You have to make one that is authentic to you and shows access to scarce resources. That's it.
Does this only work on one social media platform?
No. This is a principle. Status is conveyed through photos and videos. The platform is relative.
What if I don't like social media and think that it's fake?
Nobody likes social media. I frequently get annoyed with social media. But it's too damn effective to not use it. Social media gets the results I want, so I'll continue to use it. The key is to be a producer and not a consumer.
What if my job prevents me from showing a lot of things on social media?
You don't have to show bikinis and lambos for this to work. As long as you show access to scarce resources, and a cool, fun, interesting lifestyle then you're good to go. I have taught doctors, lawyers, and Harvard professors how to use this strategy and it works brilliantly for them.
What if I don't know how to take photos or edit them?
I've never taken a photography or editing class and I get by just fine. You don't have to have magical composition rules and crazy colors. As long as you show access to scarce resources you're good to go.
What if I don't know where to take photos?
It's simple. Find scarce resources in your city that are authentic to you and take a picture with them. Google is your friend here.
What if I don't have anyone to take photos with me?
Many of my photos are taken by random people or a tripod. It doesn't matter. Just get the picture.
Is this just another method of online game?
No. This is not to be used like a dating app, although if you use it like I describe it becomes the best dating app ever. You use your social media to fuel your social circle, which then fuels your social media. It's an upward spiral. If you use it like a dating app then you're missing the whole picture.
So instead of cold approaching, I use social media to invite women to events?
Yes and no. The reason why you use social media is because people see your status, which makes them more attracted to you. Then you can invite them to anything you want. That could be a 1-1 date, but that's not what I recommend. I'll touch more on events in the 3rd pillar of status and why they are important.
Do I have to be a photographer?
No. I'm not a photographer and I get by just fine. The photos don't have to be world-class and have colorful presets. They just need to show access to scarce resources.
Does my profile have to be public?
It will absolutely help, but it doesn't have to be. If you're worried about people judging you for what you have on your profile then read the question above.
What if I don't like social media?
I don't like social media either. But I love being on top. Social media is bad when you're wasting hours of each day consuming content. This is when it hurts your psyche. But if you're the producer people are going to be inundated with your life which makes them want to be a part of it. It's like having your own personal TV show that people tune into everyday. There couldn't be a more effective tool for improving your social life than social media. Whether you like it or not, everyone is using it. For your own selfish benefit, you need to be on social media. Girls are going to DM you randomly, high-status guys are going to invite you to places, and you're literally going to be in people's minds all day long. This is how you start becoming a local celebrity.
Do I have to buy camera gear/equipment?
No. Almost all of my pictures are taken on an iPhone.

Pillar Two: Female Teammates

Female teammates will dramatically increase your ability to network with anyone

Changing this one single thing will completely change how people see you for the rest of your life. In society, women (and the feminine) are very valuable. The Greeks and Romans carved statues dedicated to them. Wars have been fought over them. Powerful men have built empires for them. Like it or not, women run the world.

If you can master the art of having female teammates, then you will be able to access anything you want, meet the most desirable women, and become extremely valuable.

But pickup has never seen women in this light before, so this might come as a shock to you. Here’s the breakdown of this.

Old Way

  • Women are the opponent, or the obstacle
  • Uncalibrated physical escalation
  • Binary thinking

Old Result

  • Lack of understanding of female psychology
  • Any success is in spite of your game
  • You're unappealing to women
  • Poor logistical access
  • Inability to become calibrated

New Way

  • See women as a teammate and/or force multiplier
  • Calibration
  • Nuanced thinking

New Result

  • Get invited to everything because you know a lot of women
  • Constant immersion around beautiful women causes you to become calibrated and educated
  • Preselection
  • Logistical access
  • Causes desirable women to chase after you

Over the years I’ve told many pickup artists to start seeing women as teammates and create genuine friendships with them, and most of the time they look at me as if I’m insane. I understand this could be confusing to you. Let me explain further.

Pickup is about “isolating,” “disarming the opponent,” and “burning it to the ground.”. In a nutshell, the women (and especially her friends) on the other side of a pickup are the enemy. I find this hilarious and upsetting because most guys get into pickup trying to meet more women but they actively shun every opportunity to do so.

This is the result of Binary Thinking, or as the toxic pickup saying goes, “Blow me or blow me out.” This causes you to be extremely uncalibrated. Women can sense the moment you meet them if you’re just another one of the thousands of thirsty guys that want to sleep with them.

To make matters worse, there’s “negs” where PUAs will actively try to make women feel like shit. It’s horrible. All these terms make it sound like there’s a Machiavellian social war going on between men and women.

As an effect of this behavior, you likely have a lack of understanding of true female psychology, and importantly, any success with women is despite your game - the girl liked you before you did any of the weird pickup shit. But because you continue to do the weird pickup shit, you become unappealing to women in general.

Remember, desirable women want high status men. Women don’t want to be around pickup artists that bark at them and say mean things. Women also don’t want to feel like an object for men’s sexual gratification. Between seeing women as the opponent, and Binary Thinking there is a downward spiral of poor behavior with women which leads to even fewer results.

But there’s a solution. Instead of seeing women as the opponent, see women as teammates. Your female friends will provide more value to you than most male friendships ever could. When you start creating authentic friendships with women, you start becoming the cool guy that isn’t creepy. This causes even more women to be around you. In evolutionary psychology, this is called “Mate Choice Copying,” but I like to call it preselection.

Preselection means just what you think it does - the choice has already been made. It goes like this: if a male has already been chosen by a desirable woman, then that man must be desirable. Put another way, women see men as more attractive when that man is around beautiful women.

In a meta study in Adaptive Human Behavior and Physiology, the researchers reviewed 42 studies on the topic of preselection and firmly concluded that, “Women were more likely to rate male targets as more desirable when presented alongside a female.”

You’ve probably experienced this yourself. How many times have you seen a man with multiple girls and you think, “What’s special about this guy?”

Think of it like this: a man’s status is contextual, and a woman’s status is static.

If you didn’t know who Drake was when you saw him at Starbucks, he would look like every other dude. But put him around beautiful girls in VIP and he looks like a king. This is because a man’s status is inferred based on the environment.

The opposite is true with attractive women. Their status is static, meaning it doesn’t change. If you see her at Starbucks or the club you’re always going to think that she’s attractive no matter the environment. This is because a woman’s status is inferred based on her appearance.

For women, their status is “on” all the time, but as a man you have to “prove” your status. I call this The Law of Contextual Status. As a man, you want to associate yourself with scarce resources as often as possible, otherwise you look like every dude. This is why social media is so effective because you can take your status with you everywhere you go.

To put this together, preselection and The Law of Contextual status go hand in hand. When you’re around women, you inherently become valuable because of your context. So if you can be around desirable women by having female teammates, you will have more status.

This leads people to want to meet you, and it especially leads to more women wanting to meet you. You have high-status, and you have preselection so she assumes you must be a cool guy. This is why high value men have women DMing them - she’s trying to get on their radar.

But that’s not the only thing that happens when you have female teammates. Women get invited to literally everything. They have options all the time. Men, and even other pretty women, want their attention. By having female teammates, you will, as an extension of them, get invited to places that you normally can’t go. Importantly, you can actually get in because you have girls with you opposed to your “wingman.”

It doesn’t stop there though. Because everyone sees that _you _know a lot of girls, opportunities will start to come into your life. Men, women, event invites, business opportunities - doesn’t matter. You have status because you have access to a scarce resource (an abundance of women) which makes people want to meet you. This couldn’t be a more valuable networking tool.

However, I want to make this very clear that this isn’t about using women to climb the social ladder. If you’re being inauthentic, creepy, or manipulative then women will sense it a mile away. Women are incredibly intuitive, so much more than men. They will know if you’re just trying to use them. It happens to them all the time. You have to fundamentally care about them and have empathy.

This is also what makes this incredibly hard for most men. They just want to “shoot their shot” the moment they can. I’m telling you to stop this right now.

Instead of trying to pull the trigger with 100% of the girls you meet, try to make genuine connections with them and feel empathy for their situation. Every single man on earth is screaming for a women’s sexual attention, so when you do the opposite, they trust you and choose to be around you. This is why gay men have insanely attractive female friends - there’s no pressure. Only trust. There’s no “this guy is just trying to sleep with me”.

Here’s what this looks like: in order to have female teammates you have to remove the pickup mindset of Binary Thinking (“either she sleeps with me or she’s garbage”), which moves you into Nuanced Thinking. In Nuanced Thinking, you start to build empathy for women, and care about who they are, their goals, and their struggles. This causes you to become calibrated.

Because you’re becoming calibrated, more women choose to be around you which allows you to deeply understand female psychology, and gives you preselection, which leads to even more women choosing to be around you because “you just get it”.

Through knowing more women, you’ll get invited to exclusive events, which causes you to network with even more desirable women and high status men, which gives you even more preselection. It’s the start of a dramatic upward spiral where you can’t comprehend the opportunities that will come to you.

Here is the number one thing you should get from this: The more female teammates you have, the better your life will be.

If you’re thinking, “this sounds interesting but when do I sleep with them?”, then that’s a perfect example of Binary Thinking and the core reason you don’t have more women in your life. The truthful answer to that is when a boy and a girl like each other the natural thing that happens is sex. It’s been like this for millions of years. You are the product of billions of successful reproductions since the dawn of life. Literally not a single point of failure otherwise you wouldn’t exist.

Your DNA knows what to do. It’s really about doing less work and not getting in the way of your success. Just be cool and know a lot of girls. Make female friends, meet their friends, date the girls you like. It really is that simple.

This doesn’t mean you need to chop off your dick and become celebate. Just don’t pull the trigger with every girl you meet. Play the longer game, which lets you meet more women, and higher quality women, while also giving you insane logistical access, high status connections, empathy, and calibration.

Proof Why Female Teammates Will Completely Change your Life

These clips speak for themselves. If you don’t want to network with a guy like this then re-read the last section.

Female Friends Q&A
How do I make female friends?
You make female friends just like you would a male friend. You casually meet. You learn more about each other. You exchange contact information. Then invite her to places just like you do when you meet anyone new. You don't need to overcomplicate things.
What's the difference between female friends and female teammates?
It's the same thing. Over the years I've called them "female friends" but this completely explodes men's brains. They get so hung up on the "friends" part of it that they think they need to become a monk and never be attracted to women again. I now call them teammates to reduce the confusion. It's ok to be attracted to women. If you're a cool guy then they're probably attracted to you too. Don't get tangled up in the words. Just stop the Binary Thinking of seeing women like objects and make real friendships with all of them, then date the women you are attracted to. But don't force it like pickup artists do.
Do I get to sleep with my female friends?
Whether or not they're your friends and whether or not you're sleeping with them have nothing to do with each other. In reality, several of your female friends will try to sleep with you.
Do you buy things for your female friends?
Not unless I'm feeling particularly generous. Do you buy your male friends something every time you go out?
Do I need to talk to girls differently to make them my friends?
No, talk to them like normal people. Talk to them like they are your male friends.
How do you become friends with other girls' friends?
You ask her to introduce you to her friends, and then do the same thing that you do with everyone else.
What do I do if I'm attracted to one of my female friends?
The point is to immerse yourself with so many female friends that your attraction toward one doesn't affect you. If you're attracted to one of your female friends then you need 100 more female friends.
Do you pay the girls to hang around you?
Nope. Never have. Never will. When you lead with money, you always have to lead with money. The moment you pay for a girl, you can never go back. You lose all possibility of making a genuine connection with them based on your personality. She's now going to see you as a piggy bank instead of a possible mate. I've been around thousands of top models and never paid them once. Ever. With the amount of girls I hang out with I'd have to shell out tens of thousands per week. Take Dan Bilzerian. A lot of people think that he pays to be around girls, but that's far from the truth. When people see guys having success they immediately think they're cheating, lying, and manipulating the system. But the truth is, what girl wouldn't want to hang out with Dan? She's going to fly in private jets all over the world, stay in incredible mansions, hang out with other beautiful girls, and party like the world has never seen. Girls literally beg to hang out with Dan, not the other way around.
If I'm only making female friends, how do I get laid?
If you think about it, you've probably talked to hundreds of girls, but only a small percentage of them actually end up sleeping with you. If you only date 3 out of 100 girls then what happens to the other 97? Instead of never seeing them again (and 97 girls thinking you're weird), why not focus on making 100 female friends and only date the girls with whom you have a genuine connection with each other? That way you'll have 100 female friends, plus all of their friends, which is a huge abundance of girls that think you're cool and not a weirdo. It's all about patience and strategy. I use an evolutionary psychology concept called "Mate Choice Copying" (aka preselection). At the basics, it states: If you place a man in two scenarios, one without girls and one where he is with girls, women will rate the man as more attractive in the instance where he is around girls. This is because a man's value is contextual and not static. As for sex, it's the natural thing that happens when a boy and a girl like each other. You are the product of 40,000 generations of successful reproduction. Literally not a single point of failure otherwise you wouldn't exist, and there definitely wasn't pickup thousands of years ago. The biggest thing is to not get in the way of your own success. Don't try to force your way in, which pickup gets so wrong. So place yourself in environments where you have preselection by having female friends, and more women will like you. Because more women like you, even more will be attracted to you and you'll meet a girl with whom you have a genuine attraction for each other. It's not hard. Billions of people find romantic relationships all the time without knowing what pickup is.
How do you friendzone girls?
You treat them like your male friends and don't hit on them.
How do you make it clear to girls you're just trying to be friends?
You don't hit on them and call them your friend.

Pillar Three: Exclusive Events

Exclusive events are more effective and time efficient than approaching in random venues.

Usually when PUAs go out, they go to the club in General Admission (GA) with the tourists, or they go to local college bars. The strategy then is to open as many people as possible and find something that sticks. Like I mentioned earlier, this is complete brute force.

A better networking solution is to get exclusive access to the top venues in your city where the movers and shakers go. From there, focus on meeting a small number of the highest value people. This is the 80/20 rule of networking. If you want to meet the best people, then you need to go where the top 20% are, not the bottom 80%.

Here’s the breakdown of this:

Old Way

  • Cold approaching in random venues
  • Daygame in the street
  • Online dating apps
  • "Away game"

Old Result

  • Low quality
  • Have to ask "Can we get in" at high status venues
  • Surrounded by undesirable drunk people
  • Lurking around the venue hunting for girls
  • No VIP access
  • Arithmetic

New Way

  • High status logistics
  • Exclusive venues
  • VIP access
  • "Home" game

New Result

  • Massive social proof
  • Everyone is friendly to you
  • More time efficient
  • Congregation of the highest value people in one area
  • Your status continually increases
  • Geometric

When you’re in General Admission or at a college bar you’re fighting an uphill battle. To start, the quality of people is low, and they’re usually obnoxiously drunk. Then to top it off, you’re lurking around the venue probing for girls to talk to which is insanely creepy. It screams scarcity and desperation. Not only is the average quality of people much lower, but when you do find someone of value, they already see you as low status because you look like everyone else.

Pickup in general is an inefficient, arithmetic process. Arithmetic means you have to go one by one by one. Not only are you meeting lower quality people based on your choice of venue, but you’re also meeting people in the most inefficient way. This forces you to employ weird strategies to convince people to stay after the first five minutes of the interaction. This is why there’s “routines,” “peacocking,” and “opening manifestos.”

No wonder why you have approach anxiety. Your gut knows it’s a socially strange activity. The most desirable women actively avoid getting approached by weirdos - they go out to have fun not to be creeped out. Ask one of your new female teammates how many times she gets approached when she goes out. The number will shock you.

But despite these shackles, you continue to daygame at random venues thinking that your lack of results is because of your game. This is where you fall into the trap of buying a dating course, after dating course, after dating course, expecting a different result from the same method. Complete insanity.

The most desirable women and high status guys don’t go where pickup artists go. Instead, they go to exclusive venues where as a pickup artist you’d have to ask, “Can I get in?”

If you want to network with the top people in the city, do this: get access to exclusive venues, private parties, or VIP sections. When you’re surrounded by all the cool kids then you’re building a perpetual motion machine with geometric results. I call this “Away Game vs Home Game”.

I don’t mean this in the sense of “Pickup game.” I literally mean sports games. When you play any sport on home turf, you have something called “home field advantage”. You’re in a familiar area, you have the crowd cheering for you, yet at the same time the crowd is booing the opposing team. This is EXACTLY what happens when you get into exclusive venues.

Everyone is going to talk to you, extremely desirable women are going to be very friendly to you, and everyone is going to proactively keep the weird people out. It’s amazing.

People are friendly and open because your status is assumed. If you’re in an exclusive area, where the quality of people is high, and you’re not being a weirdo PUA, then you must be cool. You don’t have to do anything other than exist in that area for people to be intrigued by you.

Coming from a background of “the weight of the interaction is on you” then this might be mind blowing. Consider this, if you walked into a room that you had to pay $1,000,000 to get into, and there were 20 strangers in there, would you consider all of them wealthy?

This is the situation with high status venues. People normally have to work hard to gain entrance (or use the female teammate shortcut like I describe in Pillar 2), and everyone assumes that you worked equally hard to be there. It’s Operation “Just-Be-Cool”. The harder you try, the more you look like someone who isn’t supposed to be there.

This leads to powerful networking. Because the weirdos are out, everyone you care about meeting is congregated in one location. Extremely desirable women, business owners, etc. The women are some of the most vibrant in the city, and the men are usually successful and have their shit together.

You can attend an exclusive event once a month and batch all of your networking, making this extremely time efficient. Events, like social media, are scalable. The marginal cost of meeting another person at an event is almost zero. If you have a busy life then this is going to make networking a lot easier, instead of having to go out four nights a week to “stay sharp”.

I use the vague word of “events” so people don’t get hung up on a particular activity. It could be parties, charity events, photoshoots, brunches, dinners, club outings, game night; they could be 4 people or it could be 400. It doesn’t matter. The important thing is that the event is doing the work for you, and you’re networking with valuable people.

The goal is to do less work by doing efficient work. Events allow you to control the environment and allow status to be inferred because of the law of contextual status (you’re in a high value environment so you must be high status).

The event also doesn’t need to be your own, it can be someone else’s and that’s what I recommend to start. If you want to host your own event later, that’s fine, but first you need to bring six of your female teammates to someone else’s event.

Another important thing to note is this isn’t supposed to be “lead gen” for your dating life. Otherwise you’ll go back to the arithmetic process of 1 + 1 + 1 because people will see that you’re just a thirsty guy. Remember, men with abundance aren’t thirsty.

Make this a geometric process. Meeting one person (including women) should mean you meet many. Play a longer game and I promise the quality of your dating life will sky rocket to elite levels.

Instead of trying to hit a home run, you focus on people collecting, exchanging social medias with everyone and meet the guests people have brought. Then set up times to meet in the future. This is called “driving through people’s networks” which creates a networking snowball quickly and efficiently.

Proof Why Exclusive Events Is Where You Should Network

Badass people go to badass places. If you want to meet badass people then go to badass places. It’s that simple.

Events Q&A
Do I have to throw my own events?
No. I suggest you go to someone else's events until you get the feel of how it works and can bring six of your female teammates to one event.
What if I don't know where to find these events?
That's why you need to make female teammates first, and when you do, ask them. They know.
How do I access the events if they're exclusive?
Go with your female teammates. Women get into everything.
How often do you have to talk to the people you meet to keep the relationship going?
You don't. This is what social media is for.
I'm confused about what events are, can you explain them further?
I use this "events" word loosely. It really just means "collecting the people you want into a location you can control". This gives you status and leverage. You could invite people to your house, a bar, a club, or the park as long as you have a small degree of control or social proof in that environment. Events do not have to be massive list parties, charity events or photoshoots. They can be as small or large as you like. They also don't even need to be yours. You can do all of this using someone else's events.
How often should I attend events?
Depends on the kind of event you're talking about. There are micro and macro events. Big and small. Smaller events are used to meet people quickly and more frequently as it's easy to set up and a low-pressure environment. Think like brunches and dinners. Macro events or bigger events are usually every other month. These are big parties, photoshoots, or charity events for example but it depends on the route you want to take. This is where you meet lots of people and use the smaller events to promote the big events.
What if I don't want to throw events?
I use this event's word very loosely. If it helps you think of it differently, use the word "gathering". It can literally be anything. Outing to a baseball game, poker night, a thousand-person seminar, or a three-person dinner. The only thing that matters is that it shows you as high status. It also makes it easier to invite people to something when you say "My friends and I", or "a group of us". If you want to continue to cold approach in GA then that's fine - keep wasting your time wondering why you're not getting results.
What if I don't want to be a host?
You don't have to. The first step is to assist or attend someone else's event. Only then should you consider hosting your own events.
Do I have to pay for the dinners/brunch/events?
No. If you frame it properly by letting people know that it's a group event, then most people understand that they will be paying for themselves. Set clear expectations.
Do I pay for the girls at events?
No. Just like you don't pay your male friends it's the same thing when you make genuine female friendships. They show up because they're friends with you. Also, for most events, you'll be inviting girls to something they're already going to or events they would love to be a part of.
What makes girls want to come out to the things you're inviting them to?
You have to have the Bigger Better Deal (BBD). If you're trying to invite girls to a house party but Drake is playing that night, then you're going to get shut down. Either have the Bigger Better Deal of the night or be the only Bigger Better Deal.

Putting This All Together

This is the start of what I call the social avalanche. It’s not a “snowball”, because it grows way too rapidly and becomes much too powerful.

Here’s how this all ties together:

  1. Improve your social media
  2. Increase your network by including female teammates
  3. Attend exclusive events with your female teammates
  4. Meet more high value men and women at events
  5. Add these people to your social media funnel
  6. Repeat these steps

Preselection + Social Media Funnel + Exclusive Events = High Status Social Circle

You can see how this grows on itself. You attend exclusive events where you meet new people and create a better social media presence, which gives you more preselection, which allows you to meet more women, which allows you to attend more events, and so on…

This is how to build an abundant social circle of desirable women and high status men in less than 60 days.

Now there are a few ways to achieve this:

Option one is to use pickup with this method, however:

  • Pickup will always be seen as an exceptionally low status activity.
  • It would still be an inefficient use of your time.
  • If you want to be in the top 1%, then you need to do what they do, which is point and laugh at people who do pickup.

Another option is to figure it out on your own, but that would:

  • Take you decades to figure out, like it did me.
  • Leave you stuck until you crack the code.
  • Frustrate you even further.

Or learn from the best, me. I have the breadth and depth of education, experience, and boots on the ground knowledge to teach you to attract extremely desirable women, interact in high level social circles, and most importantly, to increase your social status.

Again, this is for winners that want to have a scalable system of meeting the most outstanding, and jaw dropping women without pickup, and also network with other elite people.

Does This Actually Work?

Yes it does. It’s undeniable how effective my techniques are. Check out these results from my customers.

Mossab - Texas

Mossab was focused on pickup to meet women which had him banging his head against the wall due to poor outcomes and time commitment. But within 60 days of using this method he was able to attend several noteworthy events where he made authentic connections with the incredible women he was searching for.

“I was going out and then as soon as those two events happened, it was just smooth sailing,” said Mossab, “It was just day and night before and after.”

Here’s Mossab’s full case study.

Adam - Las Vegas / Los Angeles

While stationed overseas, Adam was focused on pickup in dive bars. He was sick of going out all the time with no sign of upward growth.

He implemented the Pillars of Status and within 90 days was able to utilize social media to meet people and attend exclusive events. At the events he connected with extremely desirable women and also made the positive male friendships that helped him grow.

“Dare I say, other than joining the military, this is probably the most life-changing thing I’ve done personally. There’s nothing else that I’ve done that’s had the same impact.”

Here’s Adam’s full case study.

John - London

John tried many different methods of socializing with high value people, but couldn’t quite put the pieces together. He was getting results, but he wasn’t completely satisfied, and didn’t feel he was being authentic..

In just 3 months, John was able to use this method to attend “event, after event, after event,” which broadened his social circle and enabled him to interact with more people that he wanted to start mixing with.

“We started putting [events] up on our social media, and the responses we got were incredible. The people who were in our DM’s, the people who were coming back to us, the following we were getting. It was amazing.”

Here’s John’s full case study.

Jonnie - Rural Washington Farm Town

At the age of 47, Jonnie moved to a small rural town in Eastern Washington. He had a hard time building a new social circle in his rural community with pickup. To top it off, he’s also a grandfather.

Within a month of learning my strategy, he threw a 60 person house party in the middle of “the middle of nowhere”. Shortly after, he networked with a boat owner and started to throw parties there. Jonnie started throwing so many parties that he became known as the “Dan Bilzerian” of his town. I see it. It’s kind of hard to tell them apart.

Here’s Jonnie’s full case study.

Here’s what is going to happen when you do this

  • You will meet the most desirable women in your city within 30 days
  • You will create “growth-centered”, positive male friendships with the movers and shakers in your city.
  • You can finally get rid of pickup.
  • You can forget about feeling like you’re stuck at “average” and not having an abundance of incredible relationships.
  • You will feel confident and high-status forever because I will teach you science-backed, step-by-step methods that anyone can follow.

Men of Action

So how does it work? Here’s my six step process laid out for you:

  1. Abundant Lifestyle: Planning Phase
    • Before there was no straightforward process of mapping out what a high-status lifestyle would look like. But now you can use this to map the elite lifestyle you want without having to waste time to figure it out yourself.
  2. Celebrity Social Media Framework: Content Phase
    • Before, when you wanted to meet women, you would have to cold approach aimlessly. But now, you can use my Celebrity Social Media Framework to meet incredible women without wasting your time getting average results. Do you see how easy that is?
  3. High-status Behavior System: Perception Phase
    • Before, there was no definitive guide on how to communicate with high value people. But now, you can use this to know EXACTLY what to say and do in any situation so people see you as high value, even if you’re introverted with no social skills.
  4. You Army Mastermind: Team-building Phase
    • Before, women were seen as the opposing team - a barrier to overcome. But once I show you how to build the YOU Army, you’ll be able to leverage your connections with incredible female teammates to have an abundance of outstanding women without coming across weird or creepy.
  5. Red-rope Protocol: Events Phase
    • Before, you would have to ask “Can I get in” to high status venues. But after I show you how to attend the most exclusive events in your city you’ll be able to meet the top people without having to work so hard at it.
  6. The Top 1% Roadmap: Mastery Phase
    • Now that you’ve laid the foundation, in this phase you create the upward growth flywheel and repeat the process, but now it’s going to be bigger, better, faster.

Now I have an amazing offer for you. Below I lay out the Men of Action Blueprint which is going to teach you how to build a social circle of heart stopping women and elite men in 60 days or less.

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Questions and Answers

What is Men of Action?
Men of Action teaches men how to build an abundant lifestyle of high-status friends, and incredible women. You will learn how to network with elites, attend exclusive events, become a "local celebrity", and become the man that other men want to be.
How do I know you are legit?
Over 400 people have joined Men of Action. There's over 50 video testimonials on my website, and hundreds of testimonial screenshots of success. We have free Discord and Facebook groups where you can ask other people about their experiences.
Will this work for me if I'm in [country]?
Yes. This works anywhere in the world, except North Korea. This is about raising your status and building an abundant social circle. So as long as you're around humans as opposed to goats and chickens this will work. We have members in the USA, Canada, Mexico, Costa Rica, Panama, Colombia, Brazil, UK, Scotland, Ireland, Portugal, Spain, France, Germany, Netherlands, Italy, Denmark, Sweden, Switzerland, Hong Kong, South Korea, Singapore, Taiwan, Thailand, Dubai, Australia, India, Pakistan.
What does a "Ridiculous Success Obligation" mean?
Think of it like a guarantee. I call it an "obligation" because I mean what I say: I am going to build you a high status social circle or else you don't pay, and I will continue to work with you until you build one. There's absolutely no chance of you not achieving your goals. That's how serious I am about your success.
What are the terms of the "Ridiculous Success Obligation"?
If you follow the steps laid out in the program and you don't build a social circle, then you won't pay for the remainder of the program, and I along with all my team's resources will continue to work with you until you build a social circle.
How long is the program / what is the time commitment / How many hours each week will the program take?
The program was originally designed to be a 12-week, 90-day course, but on average it takes longer to complete. This is a long term approach to gaining exponential results so it doesn't happen overnight. As for the time commitment I recommend four to five hours a week, so about 30 minutes a day. It shouldn't be something that takes up all your time. Obviously you can go as crazy as you want, but most of the time this is the average I see for people to start seeing results.
How long before I can expect results?
From having over 400 customers go through the program and 2 and a half years of daily coaching, the average timeline I see from start to results is about 30 to 60 days. It depends on how fast or slow you want to take things. We've had customers see massive results in 14 days and others that take more time. But the exact steps are there; you just need to determine how fast you want to go.
What if I'd rather focus on business right now?
You've heard the saying "Your network is your net worth" right? This is your business. One of the biggest reasons why I made a million dollars before my thirties was because of my ability to network. The only reason why I work at an options brokerage is because of my ability to network. Your ability to network is your business. The doors you'll open by meeting other entrepreneurs is incredible. Everyone on my team was from my network first. There's just no comparison. Focus on business of course, but build a network to help facilitate that.
What if this isn't a good time?
There's never going to be a good time. Trust me. It's always going to be scary to jump into something new. The alternative is to keep doing what you're doing and have subpar results. Or you can buckle down and start ramping up to a high-status social circle and never have to worry about this again.
What if I want to wait because when I do something I put all of my focus and effort into it?
Waiting any longer is going to force you to continue having the results you have right now. This isn't something that's going to take 16 hours a day for a year straight to accomplish. You'll see results in 30 to 60 days if you follow the protocol. There's Harvard Professors and students that take this program while managing research and teaching. It's not difficult.
Do you have to be rich for this to work?
Definitely not. I've had dozens of customers see massive success and they're just above the poverty line. It's not about paying your way into things. This is about learning the social skills needed to build actual networks. Girls don't care if you have money. The actual object of money isn't what girls are attracted to. What girls want is the lifestyle that money brings. So you can shortcut this by using social skills to create an abundant lifestyle. And then you show that with social media to massively reduce the amount of work you need to do.
Do you have to be famous for this to work?
No you don't need to be famous or wealthy for this to work. Girls just want the lifestyle that wealth and fame bring. Girls are not physically attracted to large amounts of currency on a screen or follower count. But they are attracted to that lifestyle of the rich and famous. So you can use this as a cheat code. By using the social skills I teach you, you can create an abundant lifestyle by using other people's resources and value arbitrage. You don't need to have any extra money other than the investment into the course.
What if I'm an introvert?
Most of our customers are introverts. But that's the beauty about social circles: you can set it up exactly how you want. It doesn't matter if you're an introvert or extrovert because you're building something that suits your lifestyle. Some people want to go to the club every weekend, and I have some customers who only do Yoga retreats for their events every few months. As long as you are following the framework you can set this up however you want. You don't have to go out to the bar every night to meet people.
Do I have to lose sleep for this?
Not if you don't want to. The point about all of this is setting your social circle up to revolve around your life, not for you to revolve around it. If you don't want to go to the club and stay up all night then you don't have to. There are many other things you can do, such as brunch or dinners for example.
What if I'm a business owner?
That's great. This won't take away from that and will only help you network with more high-quality people. If you're worried this is going to take all your time, then read the question below.
What if I don't have any specific goals yet?
That's completely fine. That's why the first step is defining your goals. I am going to teach you how to exactly define your goals, and teach you how to reverse engineer them so you know what steps to take.
What if I have a busy life?
Of course you do. If you're a high-value person then you'll naturally have a busy life. I have an extremely busy life too. Between managing a successful business, a successful podcast, hosting hundreds of events, and my cats, I'm booked full. But if I were to do any other method of networking then I'd have even less time. This method is SPECIFICALLY for busy people because I'm incredibly busy. I was forced to create it like this. In the beginning, it will take you about four to five hours a week to get things set up. From there, things start becoming automatic and you don't have to put so much time into things. I spend no time at all planning events, and I go out six to seven times a week. I just get invited everywhere.
What if my career takes a lot of my time?
Read the answer above.
What if I'm not ready to do this yet?
I totally understand that feeling, I was there too once. But you're right - you probably don't feel ready to improve your life. But have you ever felt ready? If you look back on your life I bet you can see how fast decisions were made. Opportunities come and go quickly which is why it's important to capitalize on them quickly. I can truthfully tell you that you will never feel ready to improve your life. That's why you just need to take the leap of faith and jump in.
Will I actually meet the girls I'm interested in if I join the program?
84% of relationships come from your social circle. You're more likely to meet the woman of your dreams by implementing my system than any other way. The higher status you become, the more exclusive events you attend, the higher quality of women you'll meet. One thing I tell people is, "usually, the issue isn't your ability, it's your lack of access to high-caliber girls."
I've done other programs in the past that promise big results but never quite deliver. How is this different?
I've been doing this for over 15 years and everything I teach is exactly what I do on a daily basis. More importantly, the 400+ customers around the world, from all different backgrounds and ages, have been able to produce similar results and completely transform their social circle. I also have a legal obligation to your success. It's called my Ridiculous Success Obligation: If you don't build a high-status social circle with amazing women, then YOU DON'T PAY, and I will continue to work with you UNTIL YOU ACCOMPLISH YOUR GOAL. But don't just take my word for it, hear what customers have to say and the results they were able to achieve here.
Is this just another dating/pickup course?
No this isn't a dating course. It's a course on how to build a social circle and be of higher status. However, you will have a better dating life as a byproduct of this. All of our case studies have said so (there are over 50).
Is this another self-help course?
This isn't a "self" help course. I'm right in the trenches with you so you're not alone. This also isn't a self-help, feel-good-and-cry-about-it course. It's a course on how to build a social circle and be of higher status.
Is this just videos and mentoring calls like everything else?
No. There are modules and mentoring calls, yes, but a lot of this is Done-for-you and Done-with-you.
Do I have to go to clubs for this to work?
No. I like the clubs because I live in Vegas and it's the best city in the world for nightclubs. There are a lot of other ways to meet people and going to clubs doesn't have to be a part of it. I teach you how to use social media to meet people and then you can do any kind of event that is authentic to you.
What if I live in a small town / I don't live in a big city?
No. You can do this wherever you're at. I get this question a lot and I have a lot of customers that don't live in major cities. Here's one of our case studies, Jonnie: Jonnie lives in a town of 14,000 people. It's in the middle of nowhere. Even with those circumstances, he's still able to build an impressive social circle for himself. He can do this because what I teach you isn't based on some trick or a tactic that's only for the United States and large cities. This works because I teach you the science of evolutionary psychology and social media, which is available with one person or 10,000,000.
Does my age matter?
No. I have customers that are in high school and some that are retired. All of them saw results.
Can I do this in college?
I wish I had learned this in college. The whole environment is a social circle. Just think about it: everyone wants to party, everyone is looking for new friends, you're surrounded by girls, and the stakes are so low.
Do I need money for this?
Generally no, but you can if you want. I will tell you first to build a social circle using the skills I teach because then you don't come off as the "money guy". You can never go back from that. I've never bought my way into a social circle because I focus on providing value instead. In the long run, this is the most effective approach because there are so many ways of providing value. That's all money really is a storage of value. So if you can find what people want WITH the money and you provide that value instead WITHOUT money you'll become massively valuable. This is called finding primary driver emotions and value arbitrage.
Do you have any members in my city/country?
This is an international program. We have members in Las Vegas, Los Angeles, Austin, Seattle, Orange county, Nashville, Dallas, San Antonio, Houston, Phoenix, Miami, Tampa, Atlanta, DC, Philadelphia, Pittsburgh, New York, Chicago, San Francisco, San Diego, North, Montreal, Toronto, Vancouver, Mexico City, Medellin, Florianopolis, Sao Paulo, UK, London, France, Spain, Portugal, Germany, Netherlands, Italy, Denmark, Sweden, Switzerland, Singapore, Thailand, Dubai, Sydney, Melbourne, India, Hong Kong, Seoul, Taiwan
Is this just an event throwing course?
Yes and no. You can throw as many, or as few events as you would like. The thing that works massively well is status. So you want to do anything that raises your status. Exclusive events are highly leveraged items for that. The reason I cover events is that it's one of the most efficient ways to meet a lot of high-status men and women in a short amount of time, in one location.
Do I already need to have connections or access to scarce resources (mansions, yachts, etc)?
No. I teach you how to do that using value arbitrage.
Does this only work on Instagram / do you teach any other social media platforms besides Instagram?
Yes. This is about teaching you principles, not hacks. This method will work on any social media platform that exists now, and in the future. Instagram is just the most effective platform right now.
Is the course taught by anyone else?
The course is taught by me. I'll be answering most of your questions. I also have Success Coaches to help you get your questions answered the fastest.
How long are the Live Trainings?
They are scheduled for an hour but usually go longer since my number one rule for these calls is, "I keep going until every single f$&king question is answered". The record for the longest call is currently 8 hours long.
How many people join the Live Trainings?
It varies. It can range from 5 people to 40. On some of the bigger calls when I bring on female influencers more people tend to join so they can ask questions to them. On average I would say there are 15 to 25 people on the calls. But not all of them have questions.
What will my week look like in the program?
To start you'll go through the digital protocol and go through the modules and complete the action steps. From there you'll join either of the live calls and ask specific questions related to your situation. From there it's just following the steps lined out in the program. Every week is different but you'll have guides to direct you.
Do I have to throw photoshoots?
No. The reason why you see that in some of the case studies is because during COVID the only high leverage activity during the lockdown was to throw photoshoots. You can literally do any kind of event. You can do brunch, dinners, club nights, parties, board games, poker night, zoom meetups, etc.
What if everything is closed because of COVID (or some other pandemic)?
It doesn't matter. Our customers were still able to create social circles during the pandemic, and they were better than before. People still wanted to have fun and meet people. Our customers were able to attend and put together exclusive events despite the world being shut down and show people a good time. The good news is that COVID is over in most of the world and I'm sure your city isn't far behind. You can use this situation to your advantage and provide value where people are looking for it.
What if I don't have any friends right now?
That's a good thing. The reason why is because you're not going to have anyone slow you down. This isn't reliant on you knowing anyone. I teach you the exact steps with an easy-to-follow framework for making friends no matter where you are.
Does this work for business networking?
Absolutely. This isn't just for meeting high-quality women. You'll be able to take these skills and easily be able to network with business people. Status is status is status. So no matter who is in front of you, when you have the status they know it.
How do I meet high-value male friends with this method?
By going to exclusive events where high-value guys are.
Can I still cold approach?
Sure. It's not that cold approach is useless. It's a good skill to be able to walk up to people and strike a conversation. When cold approach goes bad is when you start doing pickup shit. If you're going to continue to cold approach, then cold approach for your social circle. Don't be weird. Make female friends. Go to events.
Is there homework?
Yes. You will have action items to complete.
Is this just another digital course?
There's a digital course portion of the program but it's mainly a done-with-you system. You're not going to be alone doing this. You'll have over 100+ mentoring calls with me and access to a mastermind community of 400+ men all holding you accountable and providing you support.
How hard do I have to work for this?
If you don't want to do any work then please don't join at all. It's called Men of Action for a reason. However, this shouldn't take more than four to five hours a week when first starting out. Like a snowball, once you first build it and generate initial momentum, it grows rapidly on its own.
How long do I have access to the program?
Depending on the tier you choose, you'll have 6-month, 1-year, or indefinite access.
Do I get direct access to Michael / Does he offer private coaching?
Yes. Ask about it on your strategy call.
What if I really like the pickup shit and want to continue doing it?
Then you do not belong here. Stop reading this immediately and go watch infield.
I was burned and ripped off by another social circle mentor in the past. How do I know this is going to be different?
We are in absolutely no way affiliated with them at all. I know it sucks to get ripped off. But you're not alone, many other people have been ripped off too. Here's exactly why this is different. I have: - Over 400 happy customers - Ridiculous Success Obligation to You (either you build a social circle or you don't pay) - 50+ video testimonials - Discord and Facebook Groups with over 4000 people - An actual Instagram profile - A real company
Still have questions?
Then book a call below with myself or my team and we'll answer them in depth