Why Online Dating Fails Most Men (And How High-Value Men Dominate)
Let’s be clear—most men fail at online dating because they look like everyone else.
🔷 Michael Sartain doesn’t teach men to “improve” at online dating. He teaches them how to make women chase them before they ever send a message.
Women don’t swipe right on average men. They swipe right on men who already look like they have options.
Want to know how high-status men use online dating to dominate? Here’s the playbook.
1. Why Most Men Fail & Why High-Status Men Always Win
🔷 Online dating isn’t broken—it’s just not built for average men.
Women on dating apps get bombarded with messages from hundreds of men. If you’re not signaling status, success, and exclusivity, you’re just another swipe left.
Why Most Men Get Ignored:
❌ Boring, low-status photos that don’t signal preselection.
❌ Weak bios that sound like every other guy.
❌ Zero social proof—nothing that shows women want you.
Why High-Status Men Always Win:
✅ Every photo signals power, lifestyle, and preselection.
✅ Their bio positions them as the prize—not the one chasing.
✅ Their social media acts as an extended dating profile that makes them impossible to ignore.
🔷 If your profile doesn’t instantly separate you from 99% of men, you’re already losing.
2. Your Profile Must Make Women Chase You
🔷 Your dating profile isn’t about telling women who you are—it’s about making them assume you’re high-status.
Women don’t read bios first—they look at photos. If your photos don’t scream “this man is valuable,” you’re invisible.
How to Create a Profile That Makes Women Swipe Right:
✅ Professional-Level Photos: No grainy selfies. No car selfies. No gym mirror pics. Your photos should look like a lifestyle magazine.
✅ Social Proof in Every Image: You should be seen with other women, in high-status environments, and looking like a man who gets invited to elite events.
✅ A Bio That Positions You as the Prize: Instead of “I love to travel and stay active” say “Last-minute flights, VIP tables, and workouts that don’t miss—if you can keep up, let’s talk.”
🔷 If your profile doesn’t immediately make women assume you have options, you’re playing the game on hard mode.
3. High-Status Messaging: The Art of Making Her Chase
🔷 Most men start conversations like job applicants. High-status men start conversations like the prize.
Women are sick of “Hey” and “What’s up?” They don’t owe you a response—you have to give them a reason to engage.
How High-Value Men Message:
✅ Confidence, Not Desperation: Instead of “Hey, how’s your day?” say “Tell me, are you actually as fun as your profile makes you look?”
✅ Preselection-Based Openers: Use messages that assume you already have options: “I usually avoid blondes because they’re trouble, but I’ll make an exception for you.”
✅ Only Engage if She’s Interested: If her replies are one-word and uninterested, don’t chase—move on.
🔷 Women mirror your energy—if you act like you have options, they’ll treat you like you do.
4. Instagram is the Ultimate Dating App—If You Use It Right
🔷 Tinder is for amateurs—Instagram is how high-status men actually date.
Unlike Tinder or Bumble, Instagram gives you complete control over your personal brand, your social proof, and your perceived value.
How to Use Instagram to Dominate Dating:
✅ Curate a High-Status Feed: Your profile should look like a highlight reel of an elite lifestyle.
✅ Leverage Stories for Social Proof: Show yourself at events, with beautiful women, and in exclusive circles.
✅ DM Women the Right Way: Comment on a story, engage naturally, and let your profile do the work.
🔷 If you’re still relying on Tinder and Bumble, you’re competing with the masses. Instagram makes you the exception.
5. Online Dating Works—If You Do
🔷 Most men treat online dating like a lottery—high-status men treat it like a strategy.
If you’re not getting results, it’s not the apps—it’s your approach.
✅ Make your profile scream social proof & preselection.
✅ Message like a man who already has options.
✅ Use Instagram as your personal dating funnel.
🔷 At MOA, I teach men how to dominate every dating platform by leveraging social status and preselection.
The choice is simple: keep swiping and hoping—or build a life that makes women chase you.
Join MOA today and learn how to dominate online dating like a high-value man.